The Yes and No People
Recently I took a sheet of paper and divided it into two columns: “Yes People,” and “No People.” Then I thought about individuals I knew and wrote their names in the appropriate column. What a shock it was to see the length of the “No” list.
These were the people who heard someone say, “You can’t do that!” and they believed it. Now they were saying, “It can’t be done!” and their negativity was affecting the lives of others.
What if your friends made such a list right now, under which heading would they write your name? Do they see me you as enthusiastic, affirmative and optimistic? Or do they believe you see more problems than solutions?
Are you committed to finding the good and accentuating the positve ? If not, why not?
Perhaps we could all do with an “attitude renovation” from time to time – a little space to take an inventory of our thoughts, attitudes and beliefs and then examine their impact upon ourselves and others.
I will close with the words of the author, Frank Hughes, which I love : “I will say this about being an optimist; even when things don’t turn out well, you are certain they will get better.”
We are all only a choice away from seeing life this way!